The Gold Wrapping Paper

Once upon a time, there was a man who worked very hard just to keep food on the table for his family. This particular year a few days before Christmas, he punished his little five-year-old daughter after learning that she had used up the family's only roll of expensive gold wrapping paper.

As money was tight, he became even more upset when on Christmas Eve he saw that the child had used all of the expensive gold paper to decorate one shoebox she had put under the Christmas tree. He also was concerned about where she had gotten money to buy what was in the shoebox.

Nevertheless, the next morning the little girl, filled with excitement, brought the gift box to her father and said, "This is for you, Daddy!"

As he opened the box, the father was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, now regretting how he had punished her.

But when he opened the shoebox, he found it was empty and again his anger flared. "Don't you know, young lady," he said harshly, "when you give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside the package!"

The little girl looked up at him with sad tears rolling from her eyes and whispered: "Daddy, it's not empty. I blew kisses into it until it was all full."

The father was crushed. He fell on his knees and put his arms around his precious little girl. He begged her to forgive him for his unnecessary anger.

An accident took the life of the child only a short time later. It is told that the father kept this little gold box by his bed for all the years of his life. Whenever he was discouraged or faced difficult problems, he would open the box, take out an imaginary kiss, and remember the love of this beautiful child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us has been given an invisible golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, family, friends and God.

During this holiday season we hope you cherish all those who have given you their unconditional love.  Happy holidays from all of us here at Family Investment Center!

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Hidden Costs of the Holidays & Holiday Season Checklist

SmartAboutMoney (SAM) recently posted an enlightening article titled "Hidden Costs of the Holidays".  The article outlines expenses for non-gift items that consumers tend to forget about when planning their holiday shopping budget, and also provides readers with "SAM's Smart Tip" to help save a little more on these purchases.   Click here to read the full article.

Also, click here for SmartAboutMoney's Holiday Season Checklist, which can help you budget correctly for this year's shopping season.

 

HOW-TO: Keep Spending Under Control During the Holidays

The Southeast Missourian daily newspaper published a time-relevant online article entitled “Holiday Budgeting: Some Ways to Keep Your Holiday Spending Under Control.” We have included the article in this post, or you can click here to read the article in its original form. Comment below to let us know if you found any of these suggestions helpful!

Holiday Budgeting: Some Ways to Keep Your Holiday Spending Under Control

By Robyn Gautschy

A little budgeting before and during the holiday season wouldn’t do you any harm. On the contrary, if you are searching for a way to get out of debt, getting appropriate financial advice before the gift-giving season begins is the best thing that you can do. Most people spend a lot of money on travel, entertaining and presents during the holidays. A significant part of expenditure is done on credit, at huge interest rates. This brings along a lot of debt, which usually destroys people’s cheer after the holiday. If you wish to avoid this, you should check the following 10 tips, which explain how you can have a great holiday without risking some unpleasant financial consequences:

1. Make a List:   Writing down the items that you want to purchase can help you to avoid spending money on unnecessary things. Additionally, the list will remind you to buy everything that you need in order to spend a wonderful holiday with your family.

2. Always Stick to Your Budget:  Another great financial tip that can help you to avoid holiday overspending is to stay within your budget. If you are tempted to spend more money than you should, you can shop together with one of your friends, who can provide a voice of reason whenever you need it.

3. Look Out for Bargains:  Although you cannot find some really good deals during the holiday season, there are major price variations among the same products provided by different stores. To benefit from these variations, you should take the time to compare certain offers. Another great idea would be to look for presents before prices go up for the official shopping season.

4. Check Return Policies:  It is very important to verify the return policies of various stores prior to buying gifts. This is because these policies indicate the terms that all customers who intend to return goods must comply with. These terms mainly relate to time frames and condition of goods.

5. Record Your Purchases:  This is another useful financial tip for the holiday season. Keeping track of your purchases can help you to understand whether you will exceed the limit of your budget or not.

6. Choose the Right Payment Methods:  If you wish to lower your debt, it is very important to leave the credit card at home. The best payment methods include debit cards, checks and cash.

7. Transfer Your Credit Card Balance to a Low-Interest Credit Card:  If you possess a low-interest card, you should transfer the balance of the high-interest cards to it. This can be a very lucrative financial practice because paying off $1,000 at 6% instead of 18% interest will save you a lot of money.

8. Use Stores’ Point Structure:  Numerous stores are involved in cash-back reward programs, which offer rebates on particular purchases. Although most programs only offer small discounts, these can add up to a substantial savings over one year.

9. Get Gift Cards: Using gift cards in order to keep your budget under control is a truly beneficial idea. Occasionally, this type of deal helps people to get two gifts for the price of one.

10. Use Coupons:  A large number of websites offer coupons that can bring you significant discounts, especially during the gift-giving season.

The time to look for financial advice is before the official holiday shopping season starts. Although shopping might not be as much fun as you expect, the tips presented above can help you to get through the holidays without increasing your debt.

Smart Ways to Donate this Holiday Season

With the holiday season fast approaching, many of us feel an increasing urge to give back to our local communities by supporting charities. Money Talks News recently posted a video describing the Smartest Ways to Donate to Charities. Follow these steps to ensure the money you worked so hard for will continue working hard for those in need, and make sure to listen to the Barry Birr Show on KFEQ 680AM at 9:30 a.m., Monday, November 18^th to hear Dan discuss this topic further.

 

1. Choose a charity whose mission aligns with your passion, whether the assistance includes serving hot meals, helping families get back on their feet, counseling for crisis management, or providing shelter or supplies.

2. Research to find the most efficient charity to meet your goals. Recommended websites include Charity Navigator, the Better Business Bureau, Guide Star, and Charity Watch. Find out how much of every dollar raised goes back into the charity program, and donate to the ones with higher percentages.

3. Give directly to the charity. Do not donate through an agency or telephone solicitors, as they usually keep a large portion of the donations they collect.

4. Get yourself involved and donate your time in addition to your money. Lending an actual helping hand not only aids others in need, but it can also be very rewarding.